Talkin‘ Politics & Religion Without Killin‘ Each Other

Politics and Religion. We’re not supposed to talk about that, right? Wrong! We only say that nowadays because the loudest, most extreme voices have taken over the whole conversation. Well, we‘re taking some of that space back! If you’re dying for some dialogue instead of all the yelling; if you know it’s okay to have differences without having to hate each other; if you believe politics and religion are too important to let ”the screamers” drown out the rest of us and would love some engaging, provocative and fun conversations about this stuff, then ”Talkin‘ Politics & Religion Without Killin‘ Each Other” is for you!
Politics and Religion. We’re not supposed to talk about that, right? Wrong! We only say that nowadays because the loudest, most extreme voices have taken over the whole conversation. Well, we‘re taking some of that space back! If you’re dying for some dialogue instead of all the yelling; if you know it’s okay to have differences without having to hate each other; if you believe politics and religion are too important to let ”the screamers” drown out the rest of us and would love some engaging, provocative and fun conversations about this stuff, then ”Talkin‘ Politics & Religion Without Killin‘ Each Other” is for you!
Episodes
Episodes



Tuesday Oct 28, 2025
LB Prevette on Weave, Rural Belonging, and Why “You Won’t Hurt Alone.”
Tuesday Oct 28, 2025
Tuesday Oct 28, 2025
How one rural weaver is helping neighbors feel seen, supported, and connected in Wilkes County, NC — and what we can learn from her example.
We are kicking off something special.
This episode is the first in a new ongoing series highlighting Weavers — local leaders around the country who are rebuilding trust and community from the ground up through Weave: The Social Fabric Project (weavers.org).
Our inaugural guest is LB Prevette — a “rural rejuvenator,” community connector, and what she jokingly (but truthfully) calls an “aggressive friend.” LB is based in Wilkes County, North Carolina, where she works to create safe, inclusive, deeply rooted community spaces for queer youth, neighbors in recovery, families, and folks who don’t always feel seen in small-town America.
We talk about what it means to leave home — and to return to it.We talk about pain, belonging, queerness in Appalachia, rebuilding trust one relationship at a time, and why community isn’t built in speeches — it’s built in porches, casseroles, group texts, and checking in at the exact moment someone needs it.
And we talk about Merle’s — the community bar / gathering space LB helped co-found — a place that feels less like a bar and more like your cool aunt’s house party where everyone belongs.
This is not a story about charity. It’s a story about returning to each other.
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⏱️ Timestamps & Key Topics
[00:00] Intro + Substack + meet LB (and Frank the golden doodle)[00:04] Appalachia or Appalachia? Why language matters to belonging[00:07] Growing up queer in rural North Carolina[00:12] When safety turns into fear — and leaving becomes survival[00:19] Learning to listen: from call centers to community care[00:23] How to know when you're not in a good-faith conversation[00:27] Leaving home — and then being called back[00:30] Losing her father & returning to the farm[00:37] “You won’t hurt alone” — redefining community care[00:39] What Weavers are — and why they matter[00:41] The Weaver Awards: funding the small, human things[00:43] Touch-a-Truck, inclusive playgrounds, mountain bikes & connection[00:46] Merle’s: a bar that’s secretly a community center[00:47] The TP&R Question: How do we talk across differences?[00:55] How to find LB + how to get involved with Weave
🧠 Key Takeaways
Community is built in the ordinary.Coffee, casseroles, reading groups, riding bikes — the small everyday acts are the work.
The opposite of loneliness isn’t popularity — it’s belonging.Belonging comes from being known — not just included.
You don’t have to fix everything. Just refuse to let people hurt alone.
Listening is a skill — and it can be learned.Especially when emotions run high.
We cannot make ourselves less queer, or less Black, or less immigrant, to be safe.We have to make the world safer.
💬 Notable Quotes
“You won’t hurt alone.” — LB Prevette
“If I can go far enough back, I think all people are good.If I don’t understand what you’re saying, that means I need to ask another question.” — LB Prevette
“If we’re worried our kids won’t be safe being queer, the solution isn’t to make our kids straighter. It’s to make the world kinder.” — LB Prevette
“Sometimes the bravest thing you can do is just show up again.” — LB Prevette
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**Weave: The Social Fabric — weavers.org
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Friday Oct 24, 2025
ICYMI: Mike Madrid on Baseball, Family, and the Soul of America
Friday Oct 24, 2025
Friday Oct 24, 2025
Where baseball, family, and democracy meet — Mike Madrid reminds us what’s worth fighting for in America.
If you didn't catch our most recent conversation with friend of the pod, Mike Madrid, well... where were ya? We recorded this one right around July 4th and it's still on point! What'd ya expect with the brilliant Mike Madrid?!?!
So join us in welcoming back political consultant, author, and Substack contributor Mike Madrid. A renowned expert on Latino voters and co-founder of the Lincoln Project, Mike brings his profound insights on American politics, identity, and democracy. Together, Corey and Mike explore deeply personal stories, historical context, and present-day political dynamics, all while weaving in the emotional fabric that connects generations and communities.
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What We Discuss:
The significance of personal and familial stories in shaping political perspective
How Latino voters are reshaping American democracy
The danger of authoritarian tendencies in U.S. governance
Economic populism across ideological divides
The importance of understanding and communicating with working-class communities
Episode Highlights:
[00:04:00] Mike Madrid shares a personal story of grief and connection through a pilgrimage to Madrid, New Mexico
[00:08:00] Baseball as a bridge between generations and its deeper cultural significance
[00:14:00] Inhumane immigration enforcement and its implications on American identity
[00:22:00] A discussion on whether America is at a turning point for its soul and values
[00:33:00] Vertical balance of power: Newsom vs. federal overreach in L.A. protests
[00:45:00] Latino voters' top concerns: economy, housing, and healthcare
[00:53:00] Economic populism through Ruben Gallego and Zoran Mamdani's campaigns
[01:03:00] How to talk about politics and religion without killin' each other
Featured Quotes:
"Sometimes the stories we tell ourselves matter more than the facts we can verify." – Mike Madrid
"This is our American story now. This is who we are... and if we're not speaking out, then we are individually complicit in it." – Mike Madrid
"These are the moments when character is defined." – Mike Madrid
"The best way to talk about politics and religion is to not talk about it through the lens of politics and religion." – Mike Madrid
Resources Mentioned:
Mike Madrid's Substack: The Great Transformation – greattransformation.substack.com
The Latino Century (book by Mike Madrid) – www.simonandschuster.com/books/The-Latino-Century/Mike-Madrid/9781668015278
Latino Vote Podcast – latinos.vote
Reflections on Marines in LA by Roger Herbert – rogerherbert.substack.com/p/reflections-on-marines-in-la
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Tuesday Oct 21, 2025
Silencing the Press, Politicizing the Military: Col. David Lapan Isn’t Having It
Tuesday Oct 21, 2025
Tuesday Oct 21, 2025
“The North Star is the truth. Tell it. And if you can’t, explain why.” — Col. David Lapan (Ret.)
We had the distinct honor of sitting down with Colonel David Lapan, retired Marine and former spokesperson for the Department of Homeland Security, Secretaries of Defense, and the Chairman of the Joint Chiefs of Staff. In a wide-ranging, timely conversation, Colonel Lapan unpacks the critical balance between national security and democratic accountability, the dangers of politicizing the military, and how press freedom strengthens—not weakens—our institutions.
We delve into his 30+ years of military service, his pivotal role in launching the media embed program during the Iraq War, and why he left DHS during the Trump administration. Lapan also shares pointed thoughts on recent efforts to restrict Pentagon press access and the implications of political theater in national defense.
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⏱️ Timestamps & Key Topics:
[00:00:00] Intro to Colonel David Lapan and the state of hockey 🏒
[00:04:00] From college dropout to enlisted Marine to colonel
[00:07:00] Journalism roots and shift into public affairs
[00:09:00] Inside the Pentagon pre- and post-9/11
[00:12:00] Designing the media embed program for Iraq
[00:16:00] Why press transparency during war matters
[00:23:00] Serving as press secretary under Secretary John Kelly at DHS
[00:27:00] Why Lapan resigned: integrity vs. political pressure
[00:34:00] What “tell the truth” means in government service
[00:38:00] Recent restrictions on Pentagon press corps
[00:47:00] Defending the First Amendment in uniform
[00:56:00] Critiquing the theater of recent military briefings
[01:03:00] The risks of poorly trained federal agents
[01:06:00] How polarization affects veterans and service members
[01:09:00] Final thoughts: can we still talk across differences?
🧠 Key Takeaways:
Truth Above All: “The North Star is the truth” is not just a slogan—it's a standard for ethical public service.
Press Isn’t the Enemy: Limiting access and controlling narratives damages democracy and military credibility.
Political Theater Has Real Costs: Grandstanding undermines military readiness and public trust.
Good People, Hard Choices: Many principled professionals served during the Trump administration—and some had to walk away.
Courage Comes in Many Forms: Sometimes that means resisting pressure to spin or mislead.
💬 Notable Quotes:
“Being a Marine doesn’t mean shutting up—it means standing up for what’s right.” — Col. David Lapan
“We’ve defended the Constitution our whole lives. Now we’re watching it be trampled from within.” — Col. David Lapan
“Reporters aren’t the problem. Lack of transparency is.” — Col. David Lapan
“You don't protect the country by hiding the truth from its people.” — Col. David Lapan
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Friday Oct 17, 2025
Fighting Division One Conversation at a Time
Friday Oct 17, 2025
Friday Oct 17, 2025
Surviving Triangulation in a Polarized World
It's time to reckon with one of the toughest questions in our current public discourse: “How can you think that?” Through stories from his personal and professional life, host Corey Nathan unpacks the emotionally draining phenomenon of triangulation—when we’re caught in the middle of opposing viewpoints—and explores how we can respond with curiosity and conviction without losing our sanity.
From navigating impossible conversations to confronting conspiracy theories (like the FBI staging Jan. 6?!), Corey challenges listeners to stay in tough conversations while guarding their own well-being. Drawing inspiration from a powerful essay by Christopher Armitage on The Existentialist Republic, this episode dives into the psychology of belief, the cost of defection from "reality bubbles," and the quiet strength of one-degree influence.
Whether you're a peacemaker, bridge-builder, or just trying to keep your sanity in polarized times, this one’s for you. 🙏
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⏱️ Timestamps & Topics
[00:00:00] 🎧 Intro: What drives Corey bananas? Triangulation!
[00:01:30] What triangulation really looks like in everyday life
[00:03:00] Caught in the crossfire: The emotional toll of being “the middle guy”
[00:05:00] 🤯 “How can you think that?” — when conspiracy logic collapses
[00:08:00] Discovering The Existentialist Republic and its insights
[00:10:00] Armitage on why people cling to destructive systems
[00:12:00] Humility, bubbles, and the danger of total delegitimization
[00:13:30] 💬 “Not much. But not nothing.” — The power of one degree
[00:15:00] Living in the age of triangulation without losing your soul
🧠 Key Takeaways
Triangulation Hurts: Being the middle person between two polarized groups can feel like being dragged into an emotional war.
The Power of Presence: Staying in relationship—even with those we disagree with—gives us the chance to be heard and to listen.
One-Degree Influence Matters: A single thoughtful question can shift someone’s perspective more than a thousand arguments.
Belief Systems Are Sticky: It’s costly—psychologically and socially—for people to change their minds, especially within closed systems.
Stay Gentle, Stay Grounded: Keep showing up with love, humility, and curiosity. That’s how change begins.
📖 Bonus Reading
The Existentialist Republic: cmarmitage.substack.com
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Tuesday Oct 14, 2025
🎙️ Transforming Systems, Not Just Souls — with Dr. Kurt Ver Beek
Tuesday Oct 14, 2025
Tuesday Oct 14, 2025
"If we lived in the poorest, most dangerous neighborhoods, we’d understand better how to love and serve." — Dr. Kurt Ver Beek
It was great to sit down with Dr. Kurt Ver Beek, co-founder of the Association for a More Just Society (ASJ), who has lived and worked in Honduras for nearly four decades. From battling systemic corruption to reducing the homicide rate in one of the world’s most dangerous communities, Kurt shares a riveting account of faith in action and public justice rooted in Christian conviction.
We explore the difference between traditional missionary work and systemic transformation, how theological frameworks can drive bold action, and why brave Christianity is needed now more than ever.
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⏱️ Timestamps & Key Topics:
[00:00:00] Introduction to Dr. Kurt Ver Beek and ASJ
[00:01:00] Childhood influences: Christian values and political curiosity
[00:04:00] Faith formation and a growing “allergy” to injustice
[00:08:00] Moving beyond charity to systemic change
[00:14:00] What it really means to "help the poor"
[00:23:00] Corruption, extortion, and the story of a neighborhood pillow maker
[00:29:00] How three hired staff helped significantly reduce local homicides
[00:34:00] Raising funds for justice: why it’s not as hard as people think
[00:40:00] Theology of safety vs. theology of love and proximity
[00:47:00] Political influence without being politically compromised
[00:53:00] From 113 to 218 school days: measurable education reform
[01:00:00] What we can do: curiosity, courage, and conversation
[01:02:00] Practicing politics and faith with gentleness and respect
🧠 Key Takeaways:
Systemic Change Is Possible: Justice doesn't always take decades. Hiring an ex-cop and a lawyer helped reduce homicides dramatically.
Faith Isn’t Just About Sundays: Living out the Gospel means transforming systems that harm the vulnerable.
Corruption and Violence Are Addressable: Real change can happen when Christians take bold, strategic action.
Don’t Underestimate Funders: Donors care about results — and systemic justice produces them.
Bravery Is Biblical: The call to be brave Christians isn’t optional — it’s essential.
💬 Notable Quotes:
“Being a Christian doesn't have to look like what many young people see today.” — Kurt Ver Beek“The lie is that systemic change is too hard — it’s not. It just takes brave Christians.” — Kurt Ver Beek“No place in the Bible does it say to be safe. It says to love your neighbor.” — Kurt Ver Beek“Be curious. Listen better. People aren't as crazy as you think.” — Kurt Ver Beek
📚 Mentioned Books and Resources:
📖 Call for Justice by Kurt Ver Beek & Nicholas Wolterstorff
📘 Bear Witness by Ross Halpern – (Kurt says it’s “90% on the money!”)
🌐 Learn more about ASJ: asj-us.org
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Friday Oct 10, 2025
🎙️ Back to Basics: When to Engage, When to Walk Away
Friday Oct 10, 2025
Friday Oct 10, 2025
A candid reflection on staying grounded while engaging in contentious conversations—and when to take a step back.
✨ Episode Summary
In this heartfelt solo talk, host Corey Nathan goes back to the fundamentals of Talkin’ Politics & Religion Without Killin’ Each Other. Reflecting on recent emotionally charged interactions—some painfully personal—Corey revisits five foundational principles that guide his conversations and this podcast’s mission.
He opens up about the emotional toll of receiving attacks from opposing sides of the political and religious spectrum and how even with years of practice, the work of engaging respectfully remains challenging and ongoing.
Here are the five essentials Corey leans into when the temperature rises:
👉 Practice what you preach👉 Contest or conversation? Know the difference.👉 Articulate others’ views well.👉 Sometimes, take it offline.👉 Know when to walk away.
This isn’t just theory—it’s a personal reckoning, with honesty, humility, and yes, some humor too.
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⏱️ Timestamps & Topics
[00:00:00] 🎧 Intro: Hockey talk, Rangers vs. Kings, and a shout-out to The Democracy Group
[00:02:00] Recent conversations that challenged Corey’s peace and patience
[00:03:00] On being attacked by voices from both extremes of the Israel-Gaza conflict
[00:06:00] Recognizing how giving space to others can draw heat—sometimes from all sides
[00:07:30] The emotional cost of staying in these conversations
[00:08:00] Going “Back to Basics”: Five principles to guide tough discussions
[00:09:00] #1: Practice what you preach—even when it’s hard
[00:10:00] #2: Contest or conversation? Choose wisely.
[00:12:00] #3: Articulate others’ views honestly, even when you disagree
[00:14:00] #4: Sometimes take it offline to preserve dignity and connection
[00:17:00] #5: Know when to walk away—because not everyone deserves your time
[00:20:00] Closing: Still learning, still growing, still hoping for peace
🧠 Key Takeaways
See Other's Humanity: Engage with people as individuals, not as representatives of an ideology.
Not Every Fight is Worth Fighting: Sometimes, disengagement is a form of self-care and wisdom.
Curiosity Builds Bridges: Ask real questions. Seek understanding, not just rebuttals.
There’s Power in Saying “No More”: Knowing your limits is an act of strength, not weakness.
The Work is Ongoing: This isn’t about perfection—it’s about commitment to grow and do better.
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Tuesday Oct 07, 2025
Justin Giboney on the Black Church, Civic Courage, and Healing Our Divides
Tuesday Oct 07, 2025
Tuesday Oct 07, 2025
Exploring how Christian conviction and civic love — inspired by the faith of Willie Faye and Mahalia Jackson’s generation — can transcend political tribalism.
🔥 Episode Summary
Grateful to welcome Justin Giboney, an ordained minister, attorney, and co-founder of the AND Campaign. Justin shares his faith journey, the genesis of the AND Campaign, and his new book, Don't Let Nobody Turn You Around: How the Black Church’s Public Witness Leads Us Out of the Culture War. Together, we explore how faith can ground political engagement, challenge tribalism, and offer a better way forward rooted in compassion, conviction, and moral imagination.
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⏱️ Timestamps & Key Topics
[00:00:00] Intro to the show and our guest Justin E. Giboney
[00:01:00] Justin’s background: faith, family, football, and public life
[00:03:00] Raising three boys in Georgia and coaching youth football 🏈
[00:04:00] Justin’s college years at Vanderbilt and struggles with faith
[00:06:00] Returning to faith and the influence of family, especially Willie Faye
[00:08:00] Learning from personal crossroads: sports injury, law, and political work
[00:10:00] Beginning the AND Campaign: from political activism to movement leadership
[00:13:00] The legacy of the Civil Rights era and moral imagination
[00:16:00] Political tribalism, Christian engagement, and party alignment
[00:22:00] Core principles of the AND Campaign and engaging as a faithful Christian
[00:25:00] Civic pluralism: persuading without imposing faith
[00:27:00] Importance of relationships over culture war ideology
[00:34:00] Honest critiques of progressivism and conservatism
[00:43:00] Addiction to outrage and the loss of moral clarity
[00:51:00] Opposition-centered engagement and political virtue signaling
[00:56:00] Final thoughts on leadership, truth, and compassion
🧠 Key Takeaways
Faith Requires Courage: Being a faithful Christian in the public square demands moral clarity, humility, and the ability to stand apart from political allegiances.
Reject Political Tribalism: Christians must transcend party lines and speak truth to power, even to their own political "side."
Moral Imagination Is Essential: The ability to imagine what ought to be—especially in times of conflict—is the key to compassionate and just civic engagement.
Civil Rights Generation as a Model: Justin draws inspiration from the faith, resilience, and clarity of leaders like his grandmother Willie Faye and Mahalia Jackson.
Opposition-Centered Engagement is Toxic: Defining oneself solely by opposition to the "other side" leads to shallow, reactive politics.
💬 Notable Quotes
“Discipleship isn’t easy—and loving your neighbor especially when it’s hard, is where the Gospel really comes alive.”— Justin Giboney
“If the Civil Rights generation could love their enemies with hoses and bombs aimed at them, we can love ours with tweets and outrage.”— Justin Giboney
“True leadership today means turning around and telling your side what it needs to do better.”— Justin Giboney
📚 Featured Book
Don't Let Nobody Turn You Around: How the Black Church’s Public Witness Leads Us Out of the Culture War - www.ivpress.com/don-t-let-nobody-turn-you-around🗓️ Coming November 4, 2025
🔗 Connect with Justin Giboney
📸 Instagram: @justinegiboney
🐦 X (Twitter): @justinegiboney
🎧 Podcast: Church Politics
🌐 AND Campaign: andcampaign.org
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Friday Oct 03, 2025
Cursing, Criticism, and the Conversations Worth Keeping
Friday Oct 03, 2025
Friday Oct 03, 2025
A raw look at which relationships and conversations are worth our time—and when to just say f* it.
✨ Episode Summary
In this candid, off-the-cuff talk, Corey wrestles with a series of deeply personal and philosophical questions that lie at the heart of this progam’s mission:👉 Which conversations are worth pursuing?👉 Which relationships are worth nurturing?👉 And at what point should we walk away for the sake of our own peace—and the greater good?
From fielding scriptural "shard attacks" for using colorful language to being targeted with assumptions rooted in ignorance and bigotry, Corey lays bare some inner conflicts with vulnerability, humor, and, yes, a few well-placed f-bombs. This isn't just an airing of grievances—it's an invitation to reflect on how we can all be fountains, not drains in a world sorely in need of healing.
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⏱️ Timestamps & Topics
[00:00:00] Intro, shout-out to Substack community & podcast housekeeping
[00:02:00] ⚾ Quick tangent: Brooklyn Cyclones, Mets fandom, and hope for the future
[00:03:00] Opening big questions: What convos and relationships are worth it?
[00:04:00] Story #1: Being called out for cursing—and Corey's take on "Christian language policing"
[00:07:00] Righteous anger, proof-texting, and weaponizing Scripture
[00:09:00] Story #2: Encountering prejudice disguised as critique
[00:12:00] Recounting meaningful dialogue with Lisa Sharon Harper as a contrast
[00:14:00] Deep pain, generational trauma, and the erasure of Jewish identity
[00:17:00] Hatefulness vs. ignorance—where do we draw the line?
[00:18:30] Who gets to be in the “cool kids club” of social justice discourse?
[00:19:30] Questions to the audience: Are we fountains or drains in this world?
[00:20:00] Final thoughts: Owning the heat, seeking feedback, and doing better
🧠 Key Takeaways
Language vs. Intent: A well-placed curse word shouldn’t overshadow a meaningful, vulnerable message.
Weaponizing Scripture: Proof-texting undermines the depth and context of sacred texts—and can be deeply harmful.
Bigotry in Disguise: Assumptions based on skin tone or identity reduce complex histories and humanity to dangerous stereotypes.
Be a Fountain, Not a Drain: Ask yourself—are your words and actions contributing to tikkun olam (repairing the world), or draining its soul?
Not Every Battle is Yours: Sometimes walking away is an act of wisdom and self-preservation, not cowardice.
📖 Bonus Reading
Proverbs 31 vs Proverbs 27: Woman of valor or dripping faucet? Decide for yourself.
George Washington’s Farewell Address: Surprisingly prophetic in its warnings about factionalism.
Tikkun Olam: Explore the Jewish concept of repairing the world and how it applies to today’s discourse.
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